'Mindfulness in the Home' Article Feature on ApartmentGuide.com

I recently got asked to share some tips on creating mindfulness in the home. You can read what I came up with below and check out the full article as well.

“Refresh your living space with an essential oil diffuser with lemon, peppermint, lavender, or a little of all three to bring the spa to you,” suggests Peter Craig, a licensed counselor specializing in mindfulness for individuals and couples in Austin, TX, at Presence Wellness. “Create a mindful corner by laying down a yoga mat or meditation pillow and with items that hold personal significance and bring joy – a plant, spiritual item, family photos, or anything that makes you feel zen. Dedicate a few moments each day to visit this space, especially during times of stress or when seeking to embrace mindfulness and slow down.”

Full article here: “Mindful Living at Home: 13 Little Ways to Stay Intentional”

Featured in Tribeza Magazine: "Local Therapists Answer Your Biggest Questions About Love"

My friend Liz Harroun just wrote an article for Tribeza Magazine where I answered one of the questions from their community: How can single adults find lasting love when dating apps are failing them? 

My answer: While more people look online for love, many find it difficult to make their relationship stick for more than a few months. Are there so many options that the glimmer of a new connection fades as the mirage of greener grass appears? How does one stand out to potential partners and make love last?

Date with intention. Know what you desire regarding values, ideal lifestyle and goals. The clearer you are on these elements — and the more you embody them yourself — the sooner you’ll know when it’s time to say next. Courting is a process. It’s important to lead with care and vulnerability, but people must earn your trust over time. Coming out of the gate oversharing or undersharing may lead to another fizzled connection. Show your date genuine curiosity, with thoughtful questions and responses. Humans bond more through emotion than logic, so share feelings and have fun. If you’re not enjoying yourself, how will they enjoy you? 

Next, cultivate relational skills, like being present and listening deeply. No one appreciates talking to someone itching for their turn. The honeymoon phase ends because we have to confront our differences. When you can embrace this complexity instead of seeing it as a problem, you’ll be on your way to negotiating relationship agreements that respect autonomy and a shared vision. Accepting someone’s uniqueness also includes helping them feel secure with you and learning how to comfort them in ways that are different from your own. Having the humility to apologize and repair connection — along with playfulness and humor — go a long way in fostering a satisfying love life. 

Peter Craig is an individual and couples therapist who helps clients experience greater fulfillment in life and relationships. From dating coaching to ketamine-assisted therapy, he integrates several therapeutic modalities to support client breakthroughs in body, mind, and spirit.


Please click on the link below to read the other 2 answers from therapists, one of them by my friend and colleague Gretchen Goswitz.

https://tribeza.com/culture/local-therapists-answer-questions-about-love/

My TED Talk - The Lost Man - Unblocking our emotional core to heal

When TEDx Westoverhills reached out last year, I was surprised and delighted to hear that they wanted me to give a talk! Soon after meeting with their panel and pitching ideas, we were off the races. What followed was three (long!) months of writing, editing, practicing, and crafting the talk. I found myself waking up going over lines, and falling asleep reciting most nights. It certainly felt stressful at times, but I was honored for the opportunity and meaningful challenge to give from my heart and mind to their audience and the TEDx community.

Fast forward to January of this year and I’m pacing around the green room, breathing and laughing with the TEDx volunteers. I trusted that if I felt relaxed and playful, I could enjoy the intensity of being on stage instead of taking myself too seriously and messing up the lines.

Finally they called me to backstage, where they hooked up the microphone and gave me a countdown to walk on the stage. It felt surreal to hear them go over my bio and then… take a deep breath…time to walk on stage. With a sold out audience of around 130 people, I walked onto the red (circle) carpet, and shared from my memory as best I could.

Please enjoy, from my heart to yours…


New Article in AFM: "How to Create a Personal Growth Ritual"

I had the pleasure of writing an article for Austin Fit Magazine with Dana Arielle on how to create a personal growth ritual. You can read the article here or below.

Is anyone else ready to shake off these past couple of years and have a fresh start? It’s time to hit the reset button. Think spring cleaning for your mind! This following ritual is a powerful way to set a new course for the future.

When working out, you have to endure some tension and strain to build muscle. In the same way, our mind may initially resist clearing out fears and anxieties that hold us back. Regardless, showing up to the mental gym reaps massive benefits. You can repeat this process over and over again on different topics in any area of your life that’s in need of an upgrade. 

Contrary to popular belief, inner work is not just for patchouli-wearing crystal owners (I prefer frankincense oil myself). It’s also for top-level athletes and executives who have to face fear and intense emotion with courage and vision to be the high achievers that they are. Plus, it’s what our partners, friends and colleagues often wish we would do to show up more fully for ourselves and take some strain off our relationships. Consider this next level, proactive self-care. 

Supplies needed: Pen, paper, and water.

1. Set the Vibe

Find a private space where you will not be disturbed. Close the door, turn your phone on airplane mode or off, if you can. Commit to being present and going through the steps. Bonus points for mood lighting and relaxing music.

2. Spring Cleaning

Write down a list of your fears or things holding you back. You could pick a specific subject to clear around — money, career, relationships, body, etc., or pick a goal and write a list of all your resistances to achieve that goal. 

For example, if your goal is to attract an ideal romantic partner, try to braindump your fears and doubts — “What if I found them and then lost them? What if I’ll always be alone? What if they don’t think I’m successful enough? What if they’re not attracted to me? What if I’m not sure they’re the one?”

What are you ready to let go of from the winter or the past couple of years? Let’s get the emotional residue out of your system! We all may have subconscious resistance to getting what we want. Even goals that seem amazing to have — like more money or a new job — are going to come with a host of fears that could hold us back. If you name the resistance, it loses its grip on you. When you take this step, you’re moving powerfully toward your goals. 

3. Burn it Up

Destroy the paper. Rip it up, shred it, burn it or flush it down the toilet. Smokey Bear warning: Use a metal container or fire-safe environment if you’re actually burning something. There are few things more satisfying than destroying your fears! Remember being a kid and destroying sandcastles? Knock it down! Get rid of it. Feels good, doesn’t it?

4. Hit the Reset Button

Now, it’s time to really dream! Answer these questions:

  1. If I had all the time and money in the world, what would I desire to be or do?

  2. If I knew I couldn’t fail, what would I be doing with my life?

  3. What gives me a joyful sense of purpose or meaning?

Don’t be realistic; shoot for the moon! Take as long as you need. It’s about going beyond just thinking and into imagination. You can set “realistic” goals all you want later. For now, give yourself permission to dream and see what happens. 

5. Shift Into an Elevated State

Shift your physiological state — dance to your favorite song of the week, take 10 deep belly breaths or explore how your body wants to move in its own way, like a run, sex or Wim Hof breathing (channel The Iceman!). 

Pro tip: Celebrate out loud that what you asked for is already on its way (i.e. “I am so grateful for all of this wealth and opportunity coming my way”). Speaking out loud what you desire with emotion trains your subconscious mind more powerfully than just thinking or visualizing positive thoughts, and when done together, it can yield profound results. 

Congratulations on completing your DIY personal growth ritual. Rinse and repeat any time you need. Feel free to write to tell us how it went! peter@presencewellness.co. 

 

About the Authors

Peter Craig is a TEDx speaker and licensed counselor specializing in peak performance, relationships and mindfulness at Presence Wellness. Dana Arielle is an intimacy and relationship expert and life coach at DanaArielle.com.

The Big Reveal

I got to sit down with John Howard and his sister-in-law Tori Olds for a wonderful chat on announcing our wellness center and the importance of integrative health and community. Give it a listen!

https://readysetlove.com/the-big-reveal/

“In the past several episodes, we’ve been teasing that we’ve been working on something big, and the time has come for the big reveal!

Listen to this episode to hear John, Peter Craig and Dr. Tori Olds discuss the big project and what it means for our mission and work helping you to deepen and improve your relationships!

The big news has the potential to benefit you in new ways, whether you’re a listener of the show or live in our hometown of Austin, TX. You’ll be excited to hear about the new developments, and we educate you on super important areas that can truly change your relationship life!

The Qualities of Good Leaders

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 The Qualities of Good Leaders

By John Howard and Peter Craig

Austin Fit Magazine, November 2018

As therapists, we work with many of Austin’s business and social leaders and notice what seems to translate into success in both their professional and personal lives. From that experience we have distilled down 6 qualities we feel are present in those that lead well at work and at home. If you feel like you could develop further in one or more of these qualities, set a specific task to get better in that area!

1. Empathy

Empathy allows us to connect to our own experience of life and that of others in a way that understands and relates. It is through empathy that we comprehend the emotional experience of others and what they may need from us to feel close and comforted. Empathy helps us connect to what we need as well, and allows us to express our own emotions in ways that seek helpful support from others. If you neglect the emotional dimension of life, it is difficult to connect closely with others, and you lose access to important information that can help you make the best decisions. To generate more empathy, put yourself in someone else’s shoes when you interact with them, and address the emotions involved in conversation before the logical dimension.

2. Listen Well

Listening well is about holding still while others speak their truth. Relationship health pioneer Ellyn Bader says that listening calmly listen to others’ perspectives and ideas is critical for relationships to feel valuable and grow. Yet others’ words and perspectives can generate anxiety in us as listeners. That anxiety often causes us to interrupt, change the topic, or walk away. Instead, focus on relaxing your body, remembering to breathe fully, and feel your feet on the ground when someone is speaking. When you allow give others to influence  on you by through listening, it makes you smarter by through diversifying your diverse perspectives, and makes those around you feel valued.

3. Balance Personal and Work Life

It is difficult for engaged leaders to balance work and personal life so that each gets its due, but if either one is out of balance, the issues can bleed into everything, causing stress. Good leaders tend to prioritize the personal and the professional and not neglect their relationships as they build their careers. They also bring healthy relationship habits from their personal lives into to the workplace. If you see your personal relationships struggling with your dedication to work, it is often the case that those traits are causing problems in both arenas. Set time limits for work and stick to them, freeing up dedicated personal time. Give yourself some “me time” to de-stress, like hitting the gym three times a week after work. Create physical boundaries if you work from home, like having spaces for work and others for family time. If your staff or life partners give you feedback, take it seriously and get support to work on those issues.

4. Have Vision, Yet Humility

Sometimes known as the entrepreneur’s dilemma, leaders need a robust ego to enact a new vision into the world, yet the humility to listen, adapt and change. When you are strong in both types of qualities—the confidence to create and the humility to not be arrogant—you have a good balance of traits to lead effectively. All leaders have healthy narcissism, but a way to guard against overactive narcissism is to ask people you trust, or a therapist, to discuss your negative traits with you honestly. By actively eliciting feedback and exploration around your negative qualities, you will stay ahead of problems, know your weaknesses better than those around you, and be able to address them and grow with time.

5. Communicate with Clarity

Great leaders follow Grice’s Maxims when it comes to communication. Dr. Paul Grice identified 4 parts to effective communication: Be concise; be accurate; keep things relevant to the conversation, and present things in a coherent order. Too often, people hide information that is important to business or personal relationships. You may also assume that certain values or ethics are true by default, but those assumptions can prove false unless clearly discussed. Be clear even when it’s inconvenient and may cause conflict. It’s better to form relationships (and conduct business) around the truth than it is to avoid conflict, because eventually such business and personal projects will have to account for any lack of clarity.

6. Practice Mutuality

Great leaders look out for whether interactions and projects are a win-win for all involved. When we win at the expense of others, we may also feel the letdown of knowing that life became worse for someone else. This is especially true in our personal relationships, where a lack of mutuality creates a sense of disconnection, guilt, or chronic failure. If we are controlling, or seek to have more power than others in interactions, we are often shooting ourselves in the foot in relationships. To increase mutuality in your endeavors, ask others how they feel about your interactions before you end them. Track what others say and how they feel, to detect any underlying sense of unfairness that can be addressed.

Influencers often have an impact due to their charisma, vision, and confidence, yet those same traits can make relationships difficult because it can be hard to turn off the focus on one’s own self as a center of decision-making and attention. Leaders can struggle to let their guard down, be vulnerable, and give equal power and perspective to others. Great leaders, however, balance caring, helping, equality, and humility with the fierceness and power to change the world. This balance promotes your own mental and emotional health, improves your relationships, and allows you to serve as an effective leader at home and at work.

The Best Mental Health Tips from 2020

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Hi everyone, I’m wishing you a good start to 2021. Enjoy our most recent article for Austin Fit Magazine!

- Peter

Congratulations to all the Best Of Winners this year in Austin Fit Magazine! We are honored to be a member of this incredible community of health and fitness enthusiasts here in Austin. Continuing this month’s theme, we gathered some ‘best tips’ from our team for getting through the end of this challenging year.

2020 has been a volatile year from a mental health standpoint. Whether you’ve been working from home for eight months, struggled to homeschool your kids, felt isolated, or have just been stressed from what’s been happening socially and politically, it’s important to keep yourself as healthy and as resilient as possible. Here are some of our best tips to enter the new year with greater strength and purpose.

“One of the best tips for dealing with all that 2020 has brought us is to give ourselves some space to not be doing well. When we can give ourselves permission to not have it together, to not feel at our best, to not know how to handle things, we honor how we actually feel and that what we are going through is hard. It has been an overwhelming, lonely, anxiety-ridden, and existentially-challenging time. Acknowledging that gives us a chance to process our feelings and let them move through our bodies rather than getting stuck, causing greater challenge, and allows us to get support from others,” Leah Cummins, who heads the Presence Wellness group therapy program, says.

Dr. Tracy Carver, a winner of Austin’s Top Mental Health Professional in recent years, teaches a calming and relaxing meditation class once a week called Yoga Nidra. 

“Imagine taking a break from all the stress, hitting the pause button on all of your to-do’s, and carving out dedicated time to relax and unwind — sounds nice, right? It’s possible! I recommend Yoga Nidra style meditation to all of my clients. It’s an easy-to-follow, guided meditation practice. This beginner-friendly form of meditation helps people find an inner resource of ease and well-being that can then be accessed anytime,” she says. 

Fortunately, Tracy is hosting her Yoga Nidra class on Zoom during the pandemic, giving many people a way to calm their anxiety and mind each week safely and in the company of others.

“One of the difficult things for people this year has been trying to understand the experience of others different from themselves. From social justice issues, to politics, to the pandemic, people have struggled this year to handle the polarization in our society. To feel greater peace of mind and connect better with others, I recommend everyone practice increasing their psychological flexibility — the quality of mind that helps us understand others, allows for productive dialogue, and creates a sense of trust between people who see things differently. Opening your mind does not disable your energy to create change; it’s not an acceptance that generates apathy. In fact, with greater love and acceptance, you’ll have less anxiety and stress and more energy to help yourself and others,” Presence Wellness founder John Howard says. Howard also recommends therapy, group therapy and his spiritual classes as a way to deepen psychological flexibility and focus your self-purpose.

“I would offer the idea of stepping back to take the long view. In the words of social activist Oscar Romero who fought against government injustice and oppression in El Salvador, ‘We plant seeds that one day will grow, we water seeds already planted, knowing that they hold future promise. We cannot do everything, and there is a sense of liberation in realizing that. This enables us to do something, and to do it very well. It may be incomplete, but it is a beginning, a step along the way. We are prophets of a future not our own,’” Dr. Tim Caffrey, one of our primary care doctors, shares. Caffrey also reminds us that stress and sleeplessness are our enemies in caring for ourselves and others, and to make optimizing your physical health a priority.

“2020 has been an emotional year, and those emotions are like a beach ball in water. The more we try and push them down, the more exhausted we feel and eventually we get so tired that the beach ball pops up and hit us right in the face! Give yourself permission to feel. At first, you may feel increased discomfort because you’re not blocking out the pain, but eventually, the beach ball will move along in the water, catch an occasional wave, and settle where it needs to. If we allow our emotions to be felt mentally and physically, those emotions start to have less intrusive power over us,” Julie Falchuk, LCSW, who leads an addiction group and offers therapeutic yoga, shares. Falchuk also recommends breathing practice, part of her combination of therapy and yoga, to help relieve anxiety and feel more anchored in the world.

2020 has been difficult for many but has also offered opportunities to reflect on our priorities and to set a new path forward. We encourage you to remain dedicated to finding and living your best self, to dig deep and discover what gives you a sense of meaning in life, and to get whatever support you need to strengthen yourself mentally, physically, spiritually, and in your relationships. We are wishing you a safe and healthy end to this year, and look forward to continuing to support you and the community in 2021! Best wishes and happy holidays!

John Howard and Peter Craig are therapists at PRESENCE, an integrative, multidisciplinary center that supports your mental, physical and relationship health so you can heal, grow, and thrive in life through science-based psychotherapy and medicine.

https://www.austinfitmagazine.com/best-mental-health-tips-from-2020/

July Column in Austin Fit Magazine: "Exercise and Movement for Mental Wellness"

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Austin Fit Magazine community members are generally quite adept at moving their bodies, with great determination and focus, but how does movement affect your mental health? Is there a benefit beyond physical exercise? The answer is that regular movement absolutely supports your mental health. Numerous studies show the benefits of exercise to manage stress, reduce anxiety, improve depressive symptoms, help you sleep better, and more. Medical doctors now often recommend 30 minutes of cardio exercise daily for optimum well-being.

Maybe you’re exercising vigorously and regularly, and getting physical benefits (yay sweat!), but how much do you use movement to support your mental health? Marc David, founder of the Institute for the Psychology of Eating, invites people to shift from a ‘force your body to work out’ to a ‘find what feels good in your body’ approach. Yoga classes also often encourage you to be present with your feelings and let working through them be part of your movement. Sometimes, as exercise fans, we set physical goals and then force our bodies to move towards those goals. That can work well and lead to the desired outcome, whether that is weight loss, muscle gain, or improved endurance, but it can also be taxing on the nervous system or on your emotions if you neglect the mental benefits of exercise and only focus on the physical dimension.

How do you love to move your body? Playing a sport? Dancing to your favorite music? Running or yoga or cleaning?

Our Austin friend Adriene Mishler is now a worldwide legend (plus a beautifully kind person!) for teaching people how to ‘find what feels good’ through yoga on YouTube. She invites everyone to pay attention to their body from a place of being curious instead of wanting/forcing it to be a certain way. How refreshing!

The pressure from media and Hollywood idols of “perfect bodies” or “perfect fitness” may lead us to compare ourselves harshly, go against our natural rhythms, and force our bodies to conform to superficial ideals of beauty. When we are gentle with ourselves, we commune with our bodies at new levels-by slowing down enough to listen to more sensory information that’s being communicated through our nervous systems.

Certainly, there is value to be gained through intense discipline and commitment to physical strength and endurance. The invitation we are making is: How can you listen a little more to what your body is saying? Your body stores a record of your mental health via stress, tightness, emotional energy, and sometimes even pain. The cumulative stress you carry inside is called allostatic load. It accumulates through excess internal and external stressors, like not feeling emotionally supported in life, experiencing financial stress, or through partner/relationship stress. Especially during this time of COVID, we need to have people we can open up to about our day, feel safe and trusting of those around us, and get out what may bother us and share what excites us.

Movement practice: If you haven’t stood up in a little while, we invite you to stand up and stretch your fingers to the sky, and then put your hands on your lower back and fold down, letting your head and neck drop down and dangle for a few breaths. Scan your body for information. Do you notice any tension or good feelings from your feet to your hands to your face? Pay attention to the small muscles, and key areas like your neck, shoulders, jaw, the length of your spine, and hips. Notice any emotional energy, stress, or anxiety? When we notice what’s happening in our bodies at a more granular level, we can find new ways to move the tension out of our bodies. This is a major reason why yoga is so popular now…People are carrying so much stress from work and modern living that they are looking for a way to move and shake it out.

Shake it out friends, and give yourself the treat of finding out how your body likes to move and groove a little more today!

John Howard and Peter Craig are psychotherapists at PRESENCE, an integrative wellness center supporting your mental, physical and relationship health so you can heal, grow, and thrive in life through science-based psychotherapy and medicine.

https://www.austinfitmagazine.com/July-2020/movement-for-mental-wellness/

Interviewed by Austin Fit Magazine's in June Edition: "Mental Health: Before, During and After COVID-19"

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Humbled and excited to announce that Austin Fit Magazine interviewed me for an article in their June edition. Check it out below…

Over the last few months, the conversation and news of COVID-19 have taken over our lives and forced Austinites to stay indoors, limiting social interaction to that of digital means. However, in the wake of the pandemic and its many implications, what was once a low hum of conversation is beginning to get louder: the importance of mental health. 

Even though we stay home to protect ourselves and our neighbors from contributing to the spread of COVID-19, we must also look inward and make sure our own mental health is being taken care of as well. 

Licensed marriage and family therapist, Mathis Kennington, Ph.D., says attention to mental health conversations is more visible due to what everyone is experiencing during the pandemic: uncertainty, which is why people are experiencing fear, anxiety and depression. 

“It’s very difficult to consult with people to help them cope with anxiety when they don’t know if they’re going to be able to stay in their home, right? So, therapists and mental health practitioners and doctors are having to find new ways to help people cope with symptoms of poor mental health right now, because…this is unprecedented for everybody,” Kennington says. 

Going back to Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs, a person’s basic needs must be met before their psychological and self-fulfillment needs, because until then, all other needs are considered secondary. According to SimplyPsychology, these basic needs, such as food, water, warmth and rest need to be met for the human body to function properly.

“If you ask any therapist about this, they are going to tell you the same stuff: mindfulness, grounding, breathing techniques, etc. None of that shit works right now. It just doesn’t. The only thing that I have found to be helpful, right now, is a sense of solidarity,” Kennington says. “What I mean by that is you have to be connected right now to somebody or a group of people that are experiencing the same thing that you’re experiencing.”

Connecting with others who are experiencing similar situations and feelings allows one to be provided with a sense of connection and transcendance to an issue that they are suffering with, Kennington says.

“Mental health is extremely important to overall health. It’s as important as how the body functions right, because how we feel directs the choices that we make throughout the day,” Kennington says. 

Because of this, many clinicians are organizing groups that will allow for people to meet others that are going through similar situations, whether it be a job loss, surviving COVID-19 and more. 

“People who never really experienced or maybe don’t really connect with the experience of anxiety symptoms, depression symptoms — a lot of fear — are very aware of those feelings now, and they understand how arresting they can be,” Kennington says. 

Peter Craig, a therapist from Austin Professional Counseling, says there is more appreciation for mental health and acknowledgement for how it plays a vital role in one’s physical health. 

“If you’re carrying a lot of stress from unexpressed emotions or feeling like you can’t express how you feel, that actually shows up in your body as stress in your nervous system,” Craig says. 

“I do think the mental health effects of lockdown are pretty intense for some people,” Craig says. “Some people might have the luxury of enjoying a little more time and space with their family or loved ones, but a lot of people are experiencing extra stress.”

Relationship issues because of COVID-19 are more complex, because, since people have been social distancing and staying home, there is more pressure on relationships to survive virtually, which can make those relationships even harder, Craig says. 

Craig, who is now using secure video platforms to continue business, says he thinks there will be a growing place for virtual counseling, or telehealth, even after COVID-19, as our society becomes more digital. 

Telehealth, according to Mayo Clinic, is “the use of digital information and communication technologies, such as computers and mobile devices, to access healthcare services remotely and manage your healthcare.”

“I mean, in-person is much more satisfying for human connection,” Craig says. “So, I think telehealth is going to increasingly have a place, but there’s nothing like sitting across from somebody — it’s not really the same.”

Craig says, for some people, going to an office away from their own space is somewhat of a ritual, and it could be difficult to substitute that with a virtual experience. 

Kennington, who says his business initially dropped and then sharply increased from COVID-19, also utilizes telehealth.

“It deals with the problem of access,” Kennington says. “Most of the population probably didn’t really understand that telehealth was a very specific aspect of mental health or even until COVID.”

With telehealth, Kennington says it is more complex than simply hopping on a video call with a counselor, as there are telehealth training requirements. Since there is beginning to be more public awareness of the access of these virtual services, Kennington also reckons it will have a place in the future. 

Craig says conversation surrounding mental health is becoming normalized, especially since the effects of COVID-19. Older generations used to view counseling as a confidential experience, whereas younger generations view therapy and counseling as a way of personal growth, optimization and are more open about their experiences with therapy.

Even though both therapists remark on how the effects of COVID-19 can be difficult to cope with, Craig says one of his recommendations is to find time for physical movement, whether it’s going for a long walk, jogging or even having a dance party for 30 minutes. 

Another way to cope with the stress is to prioritize quality time with the people you are quarantined with and be present with one another, without devices, he says. 

“I’m just wanting everyone to be kind to themselves. This is just a really hard time, and there’s uncertainty which makes us scared and fearful. And try practicing being kind to our experience,” Craig says. 

There are a lot of people pushing for optimal productivity and taking advantage of the extra time we have to learn a new language and work on extra projects, but this isn’t a requirement, Craig says. 

 “If you want to go for that — great, but [you]also want to give people permission like, ‘Hey, just surviving right now — that’s an accomplishment,’” Craig says. “This might actually be a really good time to slow down and reflect on your life, and, you know, just be really present with making meals and being in front of the person that you’re with. So, just kind of having permission to not have to do all these things, which is to be okay as you are.”

https://www.austinfitmagazine.com/June-2020/mental-health-and-covid-19/

'Getting the Love You Want & Creating Deeper Connection' podcast with The MAjic Hour

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Jade of the MAjic Hour podcast asked me to co-host an event with her called ‘Create Deeper Connection’ back in September of 2019 where her and her co-host Mercedes interviewed me for 30 minutes and then I co-led the group of 40+ people through connection games. It was a beautiful experience! You can listen to the podcast that just went live here.

“During our LIVE event in Austin, TX, we had the honor of interviewing our dear friend, Peter Craig, for his second time on the podcast. Peter is a group and couples counselor who is studying sex therapy, as well as an eating psychology coach. He helps people explore, gain insight, and take action towards greater health by overcoming stuck behavior patterns and fostering greater self-compassion. In this episode he illustrates how to ask for help from others, share your emotions, and how to stop trying to “fix” people. We also explore why people are having less sex, experiencing more loneliness than ever, and how the overwhelm of choices in the dating world can actually be a hinderance to your ability to find a life partner. We were thrilled to co-create this event with Peter, and share with those who attended how to connect to our own needs more clearly and deeply, and how to create more genuine and sustainable connection with others. We know our listeners will gain the same valuable insights from this conversation. Please Enjoy!”